What is it that draws me to check my facebook page at least twice daily for new updates? What prompted me to install facebook on my blackberry so I get alerts whenever someone types in what they are doing at this moment? It is like the modern day version of people watching at the mall, without looking creepy (sometimes). Except, I know all (if not most) of the people whom I’ve accepted as “friends”. I find it interesting to see what my friends are up to, who’s birthday is today, to keep in touch with people I normally don’t have the time to keep up with. I have a cousin in the Philippines that stays in touch, classmates that moved all over the country, and family that I keep up with by reading their posts and “tweets”.
Here’s something funny and indicative of the “times”: I was sitting watching TV in the living room while on my laptop when I get a Facebook IM. It’s my wife, sitting on the other couch with her laptop, trying out all the features on facebook. My eighteen year old daughter, now a freshman in college and also on facebook, is chatting about going to a concert later… all I need now is my 4-year-old daughter to be on her computer chatting about the latest Barbie fairytopia or the latest incarnation of Veggietales video. (Don’t worry, it will be a while before my daughter is even allowed to think about being on an Internet social network.)
I hope we don’t forget what it’s like to just call, or visit face to face…
I guess I could just video skype. ![]()

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